If there were only four words that I could offer to anyone, they would be:
“Look at all possibilities”
By this, I don’t mean that you should look for bad or unwanted possibilities.
On the other hand, I advocate getting silent and still, and looking for positive presence and potential first. Then with e-motion removed from your situation or challenge, think loosely about the main or significant different pathways to what and how.
Some of these may lead to results that you don’t want or don’t prefer.
Be brave and look at all options or choices to get you to where you want to be, while holding firm ideas loosely. That is, often you can leave room for the specifics or the details of the “how” to become apparent to you or to un-ravel over time.
Make the effort to map out paths to what you want, but don’t dwell upon them.
The next biggest “trick” is removing yourself emotionally from all of the possible outcomes, while intending and focusing upon the realistic outcome(s) that you want. A “feeling” or a bodily sensation of peace or calmness or hope is what you should aim for. You can choose this! Think calmly about the possible reasons for something.
If you are a thinker and strongly invested emotionally in the possible paths or outcomes “ahead”, this may be hard for you. Understand that e-motions can inhibit clear thinking or drain your energy or send you down one path only, which may be negative or wishful thinking if you are not seeing things clearly.
Go for the emotion of “love for all” over any other.
Unfetter yourself and connect to your heart and let it soar, for clarity comes from your Heart center, not from your brain. Have faith in God / Source and trust your intuition.
Know that what you want is a possibility!
Relax and be content with the power of choice, and with practice and will-power and discipline you can defuse the e-motion from a situation. Don’t worry so much over the “how” but have faith that your desires and intentions are being manifested.
Then you just need to take the next right step which is for the highest good of all.
We are part of a quantum field of infinite possibilities or choices and of undifferentiated potential.
Let your Higher Self / Soul and your spiritual team (God or Source and your guardian angels and spirit guides) inspire your next step, taking into account the next wise choice or decision whereby your good health and happiness is paramount.
You are the helmsman or helmswoman of your ship of choices. Be courageous and do the inner work to sustain the stamina to make good choices for you. The unexpected effort or energy required to navigate choices is well worth being expended.
The choices that you make for others are fueled by your lived experiences which you can offer, and by the synergy of the connection between you and “the other.”
Never feel overwhelmed, but put one foot in front of the other.
Know that if you love yourself and another, and you look at all choices and possibilities every moment, your Heart will tell you what best to do for the welfare of both.
Also, you must love yourself so that you feel “en-lightened” or capable of looking at all the possibilities or pathways, for the good of yourself and what you love!
When you remove the how manifestation like water uninterrupted is able to do its proper work. I think we often get stuck in the how and block the good coming to us. Thanks for this reminder and great piece.